‘Why do you think staying single is becoming more common these days?’: Redditors debate whether people really prefer this lifestyle or if it’s imposed on them

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Olivia Arocena • Writer and Editor
Aug 30, 2026 9:45 AM EDT

Is this 'singleness' trend meant to last?

I suppose we can confidently say that nowadays more and more people are choosing to be single. Plenty of new discourse is forming online about new types of relationships.

Right now, there are situationships, low-commitment long-distance relationships, open relationships, 'eyecontactships', and a long list of other types of ships navigating the sea of romantic attachments.

What doesn't seem to appear anymore in the conversation is long-term traditional partnerships. It's not that they don't exist anymore, but right now, it seems that more people are choosing not to engage in that type of commitment.

Some argue this happens because we have a choice now, and people who otherwise would've jumped into relationships can now contemplate other options. In prior generations, being in a committed relationship after a certain age was pretty much  mandatory.

Anyone you'd date in your twenties would be, more or less, someone you'd later have to marry.  Both parties entered relationships with that mandate in mind, regardless of whether they knew it was their own desire or a societal imposition, and things kinda went on from there.

I'm not saying that was necessarily a good thing; in fact, I think it wasn't, but somehow I still think the place we have arrived at now isn't quite the best yet. We tend to be more lonely, and relationships have become more fragile.

Having some form of commitment towards another person or a relationship teaches you a lot about yourself, humanity, solidarity, and love; and I think those lessons are very valuable in life.

To me, it would be great if we landed somewhere in the middle on relationships, and I think we'll eventually get there after so much flexibilization. Hopefully, soon we'll all have a variety of relationship styles to choose from, and commitment will definitely be one of them, possibly chosen by many.

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  • Why do you think staying single is becoming more common these days?

    I think it's a mix of things. Life just feels more expensive and busy now, so a lot of people focus on work and personal goals first.
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  • Also, being single isn't really seen as "weird" anymore it's more normal to take your time instead of rushing into something.
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  • And dating has changed too. Apps make it feel like there's always another option, but it can also get tiring and less genuine.
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  • Ok_Cap6153 People are realizing that being alone is better than being with the wrong person
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  • PrivateMarkets There are some interesting studies that the constant filming of social interactions (including rejection) are a deterrence to dating. It's pretty interesting to see how different we behave as a species where our entire existence is filmed / on social media.
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  • Abject_Group_4868 Because women have rights and can live independently, are much more picky and often choose career over marriage and having kids.
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